I'm 62 and have small white patches on my upper arms. I live in the tropics and frequently sun tanned. I'm guessing this is the reason for the white spots. I only noticed them recently

Halo I have white patches in my hands and legs right from my birth. Dont know whether to call this as vitiligo? I have white patch in my lips too but not high. Now i am 32 years old. This white patch is the same as what i had it during my birth. It havent spread. But my hairs turned white when i am very young say at athe age of 12 or less. The hairs in and around the white patches are white. Is there any treatment for this??? I like and i am very eager to live a normal girl s life. I have a three year old son and now i feel very low and ashamed to have this white patches. At times i hate this life very much. God has created me with this white patch from my birth and i need someone who can cure this. I will be very thankful. I tried tattooing at a small area in my hand but it failed. Will someone help me or guide me in this????